Vigil planning is an important component of the end-of-life process. It allows the individual to choose what they want their final time to look like. Care is taken to discuss and document each person’s induvial preferences.
Although is important to make sure that the patient’s wishes are being met, it is equally important to make sure the family and loved ones are being supported during this sacred journey. The doula will encourage self-care (for the family) and work to create a care schedule in an attempt meet everyone’s needs.
Examples of services provided:
Music choices
- Fragrances choices
- Presence of beloved animal companion
- Lighting/ Candles
- Family members/ friends in attendance
- Religious support
- Creating a care schedule that allows a sense of presence for the loved one AND emotional respite for the caregivers.
It is important at this time to honor any and all wishes of the individual.
RESPITE CARE
Respite care is an opportunity for families to take a rest from sitting vigil. It is important for the patients loved ones practice self-care. The Doula will provide a comforting presence with the patient during this time.
BEDSIDE SERVICES
The most important role of a Doula during the active dying phase, is presence and support. Guided imagery and Reiki can also be utilized as a means of comfort and peace to the patient and loved ones.
Judith Arasi - End of Life Doula 